How to Succeed without Struggling

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Hi, I’m Nancy Fairbrother and yes, you were born to succeed. You were born to thrive in every area of your life.

And deep inside, you know how to do this.

What is Success?

It seems, especially in the U.S., that the word success is heavily weighted with anxiety. Even though as a society we’ve become more self aware, many of us still think of success in the old way – we need to put off living in a way that makes us happy in order to do those things that we may not want to do in order to make us appear, well, successful. We are status conscious. We measure our success by how much money we have, how much stuff we’ve accumulated, how smart our kids are, how important our job is, by the neighborhood we live in. All these elements show the world how powerful we are.

There’s nothing wrong with living in a beautiful neighborhood, having lots of money and stuff, a powerful job, smart kids, etc. I call this outer success.

The important thing is what motivates us to achieve these things. Are we motivated by fear? Do we have to show the world we’re okay? Or are we achieving outer success by living a life that makes us happy?

One way creates a life of stress, depression, and eventual physical illness. The other way enables us to thrive even though we have challenges. I call this inner success. It is the source of all outer success.

A New Paradigm

Because we have become more self-aware mass consciousness has also evolved, creating an energy that supports inner fulfillment. Although it’s challenging and it requires courage and commitment, it’s easier than ever before to change our lives if we so desire. We all have the potential to live a life of inner and outer success without the soul-crushing anxiety of living up to someone else’s expectations.

Remember the last time you were in the flow? How inspired you were, how you knew exactly what to do, and how charged up with energy you were? You were unstoppable.

And you felt great.

Being in the flow, for most people, is a happy accident. What if you could feel that way more of the time? How would it change the quality of your life?

How could you create this natural state of being instead of waiting for it to happen?


I have found there are three important elements to living in this state.

  1. Knowing who you are.
  2. Managing your energy.
  3. The willingness to face the fears that are holding you back.

Know Who You Are

When you are in the flow, you are in tune with your deepest wisdom. You act in accordance with that wisdom, trusting it completely.

At that moment, you access a tiny portion of your potential for achieving your dream.

Here are a few facts about the deeper part of you.

You are more than you think you are.

You are a soul with a body, not a body with a soul. You are an energetic being comprised of two levels of energy; a visible level (your body) and an invisible level (your spirit or soul).

You have limitless awareness and infinite wisdom gained from lifetimes of experience. True success comes from this inside source; from your soul.

We have learned to give more attention to our physical selves than our spiritual selves, but we can learn to go within and discover the amazing talents and abilities we were born with.  As with anything else, it just takes practice.

Manage Your Energy.

How many times have you woken up in a bad mood and found it hard to get out of it? We’ve all had days where you stub your toe, get in a traffic jam on the way to work, drop things, spill your coffee, make mistakes at work, argue with people, and feel generally frustrated all day.

You can learn ways to change that instantly by working with your spiritual energy. There are breathing techniques and mental processes you can practice any time and any place. Practicing meditation can bring you inner peace.

You are a magnificent co-creator in charge of your energy, and you have the ability and the power to change it whenever you want to.

Face the Fears that Are Holding You Back.

I know, this is scary, but having fears and challenges doesn’t mean there is something wrong with you. You are perfect as you are. The Universe, the Creator, loves you exactly as you are.

Why do we have challenges?

Everyone has challenges. No one is immune. Numerology has taught me that everyone was born with their challenges and fears already in place.

I have learned that everyone has the power and can find the resources to resolve every challenge they have. The wisdom we gain by healing our hurts and fears creates giant steps toward creating the life we can love.

Think of your fears as golden nuggets of information that you can use to elevate your life to new levels of success.

You Have A Divine Purpose, A Calling.

When you were born, you were given a secret code containing the key to your divine purpose.

Living your purpose is the key to a life of enjoyment, prosperity, and fulfillment. It is the most important thing you can do, not only for yourself, but for the world and everyone you know.

You already have everything you need to create the life you’ve always wanted. All these qualities are available to you now. They are part of your divine plan.

Living Your Life Purpose is the Key to Your Success.

When you’re living your purpose you are in harmony with your soul’s wisdom and with the flow of life, where serendipity happens.

Opportunities appear effortlessly, like doors opening automatically.

Challenges become opportunities for creating higher levels of success.

Showing Up

There’s more to you than you ever suspected. I want you to know how magnificent and powerful you are. With your potential revealed, you can be the person you were meant to be, living in the flow.

Isn’t it time you became that person? Isn’t it time you began your new life – living in love for yourself and others, enjoying your life, transforming your problems into wisdom instead of running away from them?

How to Get Started

The ancient art and science of Chaldean Numerology reveals who you are on that deep level. It unveils the secret code contained in the letters of your name and in the numbers of your birth date.

Better yet, it reveals your life purpose in under two hours. There are no lists to make and no tests to take.

Chaldean Numerology is an ancient science whose time has come again. It is easy to use and is open to everyone. It will introduce you to a place within that can never be diminished.

You will see yourself in a new way; as someone who is perfect just as you are, someone with unlimited potential to grow and flourish – to create the life you’ve always wanted.

How Can Your Chaldean Soul Profile Change Your Life?

Before my Chaldean Soul Profile, I was living in a valley of limitation, unable to see my way out of the trapped life I was living. Afterwards, I was standing on top of the mountain, able to see the limitless possibilities before me. I felt empowered like never before. That’s why I want to share my discovery with everyone. I want you to experience your powerful possibilities, too.

The next two pages show you how you can discover your master plan for inner and outer success, either through my e-book or by scheduling a personal Chaldean Soul Profile consultation with me.

Thank you for the opportunity to share my passion with you.







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  1. Yes, we have forgotten much of what we scripted into our terrestrial life purpose prior to incarnating upon this earth. Numbers are fascinating and hold ideas that are strung together in relationships; except when not used those relationships weaken within the consciousness of the person. but are never lost. Exploring your identity and purpose should cause a resonance to signify a core truth when one gets into Chaldean Numerology whether through a guided professional or on your own research using a text on the subject. Thanks for sharing your skills in a time when many are asking questions pertaining to their purposes in life.


    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting, David. I like your point that you can benefit from numerology through a professional consultation or through books on your own. My intention is to bring numerology out of the shadows to reveal it as a source of validation of who we are and as a healing tool that is always showing us how to heal the hurts in our lives and how to celebrate the strengths we take for granted.


  2. Nancy…awesome blog…inspiring.

    My perspective to the question …”is their life after biological death…I suspect the more important question is…”is there life before birth?” I think we always existed and always will.


    1. Thanks for your comment, David. I feel the same way you do – we are forever. But that doesn’t mean I understand all the implications of this belief. There are mysteries upon mysteries – it’s what makes life exciting.


      1. Nancy……I just returned from my 50th high school class reunion…our class of 42 hasn’t been together since 1963..it was our first reunion! I was more than fun for us..it was a spiritual union as we all needed to reconnect to our roots. We have been fortuante in that we have only lost 4 of our class…sad as it is..it could be worse…so we now want to reunite annually!!!!


    2. David, whose definition of LIFE are you using? What is time? Could the human condition be the only residence for a sentient spirit? Yet, it is best and wise to focus on being exactly what you are, a human with an incarnated soul having unlimited potential within a spiritual sense though a limited scope of expression within the human sense. Limitations give causes for exploration and development!
      Live well, love and laugh joyfully David as you allow the Universes to come into your consciousness so that your wisdom expands too.


      1. Thanks for comment David…..I suspect we are relatively close in our understanding of reality. Quantum physics has revealed that reality is not “particulate” but is a manifestation of tiny vibrating “strings” (smaller than 1 x 10-33cm..the Planck limit) Biological life as it occurs on this planet involves energy transformations at the molecular level and reflects lower level vibration frequencies. Evolution by Darwinian Natural Selection constantly drives “life” to higher quantum states resulting in frequencies that do not occur via molecular energy transformations. Religious interpretation of this is “spirit” or supernatural. phenomena. God’s Laws are PERFECT…”magic” is not required. Christ revealed this transformation of energy at His Transfiguration. Christian theology is contradictory because in Genesis….God creates biological plant and animal life and He saw that it was “good.” The fall from “grace” and the creation of “sin” didn’t occur until Adam and Eve revealing that biological life was NOT created in a fallen state, which according to Christian theology, all life is now in a “fallen” state.


  3. Thanks for the comment, David! You can see I shortened it quite a bit (after reading it). It’s a long one for a blog comment. It’s important to get together and catch up, and so exciting when you haven’t seen friends for umpteen years. I especially like the ones where you pick up right where you left off the last time you saw them. I think it would be greater still to ask friends, long-lost or otherwise, what their greatest dream is. I’ll be doing this more, too. I love the answers. I never know what I’m going to hear.


  4. Thank you Nancy for Being on Donna Schmid’s~ Blog Talk Radio show “Pathways to Authenticity”. I am actually an acquaintance of Donna’s as she is a friend of my mother and we have taken metaphysical classes together several years ago. & just recently reconnected with her.. Anyhow… I have just turned 40 and now know through some recent (as Donna would say)”magical” or you could say definitely spiritual events that the time (finally.. lol.. I’ve been waiting since I was a teen!) is now nearing for me to start Practicing and Doing what I came here to do from a spiritual standpoint. So… I was so Grateful for the information provided on her show.. & here on your site… It helped clarify some things for me! 🙂 So THANK YOU So Much !!! 🙂


    1. Thanks for your visit and comment, Rick. It was such a pleasure to be on Donna’s show, and I’m so pleased that you received some insights from it and from my blog. How wonderful that you are starting your spiritual work. Keep me posted and let me know what you are doing.


  5. I hear you when you say we were born with those keys, but insanely maddening it is that we don’t know where we’ve put the keys or which lock to put them in, etc. You know? We feel lost, still, powerless, futile.

    Yet, this was a very inspiring post. Has me think.


  6. Enjoyed examining this, very good stuff, thankyou. Talk sense to a fool and he calls you foolish. by Euripides. ddcdfcdkbdke


  7. Tell me about my business development and financial development. My lucky name and number in Business. What kind of trade will be suitable for me. My date of Birth is Sept 8th 1964.


    1. Thanks for stopping by, S.P. Your Direction number indicates the type of career that will fulfill you. It is the number 1 for you. You are self-motivated, ambitious, an innovator. You are a leader ahead of your time. You have original ideas, and it may be challenging to put them across to others. You like action. Some fulfilling work for you would be inventor, idea person, research and development, director, program planner, explorer, theatrical producer, sales manager, engineer. When you are out of balance you express the down side of these qualities, such as lack of diplomacy, a tendency to be pushy, hasty, overbearing, arrogant and impatient. On the other hand, you may also be timid when out of balance, lacking the courage to stand up for yourself. There are other numbers in your chart that influence your choice of career, but in your heart you know which of these would be your first choice. All your numbers are lucky because you have chosen all of them to guide you through life. Your level of success is up to you and depends upon how willing you are to be true to yourself – how committed you are to living your purpose. The higher your commitment, the more joyful and prosperous your life will be. I wish you all success and prosperity.


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